1 details2 pre-ceremony (lily)3 pre-ceremony (jimmy)4 tea ceremony (lily's house)5 tea ceremony (jimmy's house)6 family portraits7 first look8 bride and groom portraits9 wedding party portraits10 ceremony11 receiving line12 introductions13 first dance14 parent dances15 speeches16 groomsmen performace17 cake cutting18 table greetings (chao ban)19 boquet and garter toss20 sendoff21 misc reception